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एक बार फिर से मदर्स डे आ गया। लेकिन इस बार भी मैं मम्मी को कोई तोहफा नहीं दे पा रही हूँ। मानाकि माँ को तोहफे से ज्यादा, अपने बच्चों की खुशी प्यारी होती है। लेकिन हमारे चेहरे पर भी असल खुशी तब आती है, जब हम अपने माँ-पापा के लिए कुछ अच्छा कर पाते हैं। या उन्हें कोई छोटी सी भी खुशी दे पाते हैं।

मैंने आजतक माँ के लिए कुछ ज्यादा नहीं किया। इसलिए हर साल मदर्स डे पर माँ के नाम एक लेख ही लिख देती हूँ। थोड़ा दिल को सुकून मिल जाता है।

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माँ की शादी लगभग पन्द्रह साल की उम्र में हो गई थी और सत्रह साल तक मैं हो गई थी। छोटी-सी उम्र में माँ बनने के कारण और गाँव में सुविधा ना होने की वजह से मम्मी को देर से अस्पताल ले जाया गया। दादी ने सोचा, घर पर ही हो जाऊँगी।

लेकिन मैं तो ठहरी उनकी नालायक बेटी, उन्हें पैदा होने से पहले से तकलीफ देती रही। डॉक्टर ने कहा, अस्पताल में देर से लाने कि वजह से नॉर्मल डिलीवरी में दिक्कत होगी। इसलिए छोटी सी उम्र में मम्मी का बड़ा ऑपरेशन किया गया। जिसके निशान मम्मी के पेट पर अब तक हैं। उसके साथ ही वो दर्द भी।

माँ की पढ़ाई के बीच अगर गरीबी ना आयी होती, तो वो जरूर एक अच्छी ऑफिसर पोस्ट पर होतीं। उनका दिमाग अभी भी उतना तेज है, जितना पहले था। सारा मैथ का हिसाब उँगलियों पर ही कर लेती हैं। घर पर माँ ही थीं, जो सुबह-सुबह अखबार से सारी जरूरी खबरें सुना डालती थीं। कठिन शब्दों के कारण जो नहीं पढ़ पातीं, वो पापा से पढ़वा कर याद कर के हमें बतातीं।

बाकी रेडियो पर तो योजनाओं से लेकर सारी चेतावनी, जागरूकता वाली खबरें तो याद से बतातीं। जो असल में हमें भी नहीं पता होती थीं। मेरी मम्मी, मेरी पहली टीचर और बेस्ट फ्रेंड हैं। उन्होंने किताबी ज्ञान से ज्यादा जिंदगी के तजुर्बे दिए हैं। मम्मी में तो हर चीज़ ख़ास है, लेकिन मुझे सबसे ज्यादा पसंद है, उनका बेबाकपन और निडरता।

बचपन का एक किस्सा मुझे अब भी याद है। ग्वालियर में ठाकुरों का बोलबाला रहता था। उनका रास्ता भूलकर भी कुत्ता भी नहीं काट सकता। गर्मी के दिनों में पानी के लिए एक दिन मम्मी सुबह से लाइन में लगी थीं, लेकिन तभी एक हट्टा कट्टा सा आदमी आकर मम्मी की बाल्टी एक तरफ फेंक देता है। तब क्या था, मम्मी ने भी निडर होकर उसे अच्छा सबक सिखाया और लाइन में लगने को कहा। आस-पास के लोग हक्के-बक्के से मम्मी को देखने लगे और कहने लगे इतनी सी लड़की की हिम्मत देखो, ठाकुर से बैर ले ली। उस हट्टे-कट्टे आदमी ने भी अपना परिचय देते हुए कहा तुझे पता है ना, मैं इस एरिया का सबसे खतरनाक ठाकुर हूँ और तेरे साथ में कुछ भी कर सकता हूँ।

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मैं वो वाकया अब भी नहीं भूलती हूँ “ठाकुर होगा तू अपने घर पर ,तुझे जो करना है कर ,तेरी गुंडागर्दी शर्मीला मंडल नहीं सहने वाली”। हालांकि बाद में उस ठाकुर ने खुद मम्मी से माफ़ी मांगी थी।

माँ हमेशा कहती हैं, जियो तो शान से, निर्भीक होकर, ना कि कायरों की तरह ड़र-ड़र कर। मैंने अपनी माँ से निडरता सीखी लेकिन शायद पूरी तरह सीखना अब भी बाकी है।

हर माँ से उसका बच्चा कुछ न कुछ जरूर सीखता है, क्यूंकि पहली गुरु और दोस्त बच्चों की माँ ही होती है। इसलिए समय आ गया है कि इस भावी गुरु को, अपने बच्चों को आज के समय के हिसाब से शिक्षित करें। बेटियों को शिक्षित कर आत्मनिर्भर बनाने के साथ अन्याय के खिलाफ आवाज़ तेज करना सिखाना होगा।

BeautyPlus_20161010193315_fastकिचन से ज्यादा उन्हें दुनिया में रहना सिखाना होगा। उन्हें मानसिक और शारीरिक रूप से मजबूत बनाना होगा। बेटों को अकड़ से ज्यादा विन्रमता सिखानी होगी। सिखाना होगा, महिलाओं के सम्मान के साथ, उनके लिए खड़ा होना भी। साथ किचन में लड़कों को काम करा कर समाज कि रूढ़ी परम्पराओं को तोड़ना होगा।

एक माँ ही है, जो अपने बेटे को राम ,कृष्ण और दुर्योधन या कंस बना सकती है। वही बेटी को सीता और सावित्री की तरह शांत, सरल, अन्याय को स्वीकारने वाली या फिर आक्रामक, आजाद, जुल्म से लड़ने वाली रानी लक्ष्मीबाई, मैरीकॉम, फोगाट बहनों की तरह बना सकती है।

हालांकि इसमें भी बहुत अपवाद सामने आते हैं। कई बार माँ जिसतरह अपने पौधे रूपी बच्चें को सींचती है, वो बड़ा होकर खुशबूदार फूल के पेड़ की जगह, काँटों से घायल करने वाले बबूल के पेड़ के समान बनकर रह जाता है। या फिर एक सूखा बिना काम का पेड़।

जिसमें माँ तो निश्छल होती है, पर लोग उनकी कोख, परवरिश पर ऊँगली उठाने लगते हैं। ऐसे में माँ सिर्फ एक मूक मूर्ति की तरह बनकर रह जाती है। माँ सच में खास होती है। तभी तो माँ की ममता को पाने के लिए ईश्वर स्वयं धरती पर जन्म लेते हैं।

इसलिए आप सब भी अपनी माँ को प्यार से गले लगाकर मदर्स डे विश करिए और तोहफे के रूप में अपने माँ-पापा को अपने दिल के साथ घर में भी जगह दीजिए। जिस दिन मंदिर, मस्जिद, स्टेशन, सड़क और वृद्धाश्रम में बूढ़ी माँ भटकना बंद कर देगी उस दिन असल में मदर्स डे के मायने पूरे होंगे। बाकी फेसबुक पर मदर्स डे लिखते रहिए…………..!!!! हैप्पी मदर्स डे माँ……

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